And now... the end is near (for some)

As the course winds down for many of you, please spend some time reading over your blog posts and those of your classmates.  As you read, what stands out to you?  What have you learned about yourself, about life, about your values, your goals and hopes, your ideals?  What can you take with you as you go forward from this class? 

Finally, please read this article about Lent... it's about a period of 40 days, but gives insight into our lives.  Our faith journey, our life journey, is constantly becoming, growing... and often we get stuck in a rut, maybe when we've made a mistake, have regrets, experience loss in our lives, or just when things don't turn out the way we hoped.  But we are reminded in Lent that there is always hope, there is always resurrection, there is always another day.  We will constantly grow, change and learn.  I think Lent can be a metaphor for life.  At the end of the article the author reflects on Holy Saturday... the time of waiting:

"Holy Saturday has become an everyday vehicle of space, time and ritual that affords me the opportunity to bridge an end of an experience to the possibility of a new one. It is paved with quietness, emptiness, fear and anxiety. This waiting is what I am working on this Lent: the ability to regularly wait and put spaces of faithfulness in between the hecticness of all the moments of my days. This is the space where I can prepare myself for the unknown and open myself up to the miracle of Easter and the promise of new life.
Take a moment to consider how you experience Holy Saturday. Consider how your community celebrates this space of uncertainty and faith. Consider how the church is empty and quiet for 24 hours. How can you expand this space of waiting to make more room for the resurrected Christ in your life?"

Perhaps you find yourself in a time of waiting now.  Anticipating the future, college, independence, new opportunities, etc. with the hope and expectation of what is to become.  So, one final blog question- How can you expand this space of waiting to make more room for the resurrected Christ in your life?  How can you continue to make the time to think, reflect, pray, let it all soak in... instead of letting it pass and moving on to the next 'thing', 'relationship', 'experience', etc?

Religious Freedom

Based on the articles and statements from the USCCB and America Magazine regarding birth control and the HHS mandate, describe how theology attempts to intersect with politics.  What have you learned outside of class about this issue?  At church, at home?  Finally, what is your reaction and response?  Why?

Love is the love of being loving

Whatever section you are in of Vocation and Human Sexuality, you have learned, discussed and pondered extensively the topic of love.  I pass along the following article in the National Catholic Reporter on love... not in the flashy roses, diamond rings and fireworks... but on the act of being loving and being in it together.  Please take a moment to read it, even though you probably haven't seen either of the movies he references :)  Here it is!

The changing face of marriage

Family life is full of major and minor crises — the ups and downs of health, success and failure in career, marriage, and divorce — and all kinds of characters. It is tied to places and events and histories. With all of these felt details, life etches itself into memory and personality. It’s difficult to imagine anything more nourishing to the soul. — Thomas Moore 

 

As the composition of marriage and families continue to change in the twenty-first century, we are reminded of the call from the second Vatican Council:

"The Council further recognized the dignity of marriage by declaring that families were genuinely “Church.” The Council restored the ancient concept of “domestic church” as it declared: “In what might be regarded as the domestic church, the parents are to be the first preachers of the faith for their children by word and example” (Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, Lumen Gentium, #11).

The early Church began in house churches, where families were the heart of the communities and from which ministers were first called to use their personal gifts to serve the needs of the larger community. The family is the most intimate experience of Church, the place where love, forgiveness and trust should first be encountered. This is the family Church, whose members are called to embody Christ in everyday life. (http://www.americancatholic.org/Newsletters/VAT/aq1004.asp)"

What has been your experience of the 'domestic church'?  Based on what you've viewed from the clip of 'Parenthood', what are some pros/cons of the changing structure and composition of marriage and family?  Finally, some good news- a study of marriage and college degree done by the Pew Trust in 2010 suggested that those with a college degree are less likely to experience divorce and multiple marriages than those without a college degree.  Read more here .

What does that mean for you?  Do you feel compelled to someday establish the domestic church in your home?   

Dating and Marriage

When analyzing ethics in any context, considering the intention and purpose behind an act is essential.  As we continue to study sexuality and relationships, we will look at the intentions behind dating and marriage.  Some modern trends suggest that people seek out marriage and relationships that offer 'self-expansion' or a partner that makes their life more interesting.  A recent op-ed article in the New York Times examined this changing phenomenon.  According to the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, marriage works when there is open communication, commitment and shared values/faith.  The intention here is much more focused on self-sacrifice instead of self-fulfillment.  The focus is on the other and your 'new life together' instead of being focused on yourself and what the relationship/person is giving to you (part of the argument in the NYTimes article).  Certainly (I'd imagine) at this stage in your life, you are not necessarily thinking about life-long commitments.  However, based in your reading of these two articles, what are your intentions in relationship?  What do you look for, desire, hope for?  In addition to reflecting on your own intentions, analyze those intentions.  Do they reflect modern society and/or Christian values? 
In addition to your own post, please respond to at least one other student's blog through the comments option.  Happy blogging :)

Dating: What's the point?

In chapter five of his book "Love, Reason, and God's Story", David Cloutier examines arguments within Christianity in favor of dating and opposed to the practice of dating.  Some of the 'anti-daters' argue that dating in our current social context is 'essentially practice for divorce'.  In your response, share your reaction to this claim, as well as your reaction to the reasons given to justify dating (those by Freitas and King among others).  How does this argument compare with the experience of you/your peers and 'contemporaries'?  Finally, how does this compare to the 'hook-up' culture prevalent in colleges and universities in 2012?  Please refer to this article from none other than BUSTED HALO :), as well as the article we read by Fr. Rick Malloy challenging the culture of 'hooking up'. 

It's that time of year again!

Tomorrow we will enter into the lenten season with the distribution of Ashes at liturgy.  The question we should all consider is:  What are you going to do over these next 40 days?  Lent is often a time associated with sacrifice... maybe giving up fried food, chocolate, caffeine, etc.  But Lent is also about more than a practice of discipline and weight loss.  Lent can be an opportunity to sacrifice in solidarity with Jesus and all those who suffer... or it can be a time to intentionally do something (as opposed to intentionally not doing something like not drinking coffee) that can aid in your spiritual practice.  In past years, I have tried to commit each day for some meditation, or driving to school with the radio off.  Last year I joined a prayer and faith-sharing group that gathered weekly throughout Lent to pray and share the 'state of our heart'.  We still meet weekly (though my attendance is spotty at times due to other obligations) and continue to pray with and for one another.  One year I decided to give up chocolate (I lasted three days) but I think my heart wasn't in it.  I didn't think WHY I was giving up chocolate... it had no connection to the meaning behind the season of Lent.  It wasn't wrong to give chocolate up, but lent challenges, invites and encourages us to also consider our motivations.  Here are a few helpful resources for you to explore about Lent.  Please post in 1-2 paragraphs what Lent means to you and what you plan to do (or NOT do!) these next 40 days.